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By removing your ability to see, you heighten your other senses and anticipation. By taking away her ability to see what is going on around.

That in turn puts her on edge but in a good way heightening her other senses to try to figure out her surroundings and what is happening to her body. You can take it further and add bondage and other sensory deprivation, but a blindfold is a good start. Shopping is a fun activity for many women.

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